We all make decisions in our lives that we regret. If we didn’t we wouldn’t be human or we would just be extremely lucky. And for women who had their tubes tied and now wish they never had have the same feelings.
Contrary to popular believe many women who now regret having their tubes tied did not make the “initial” decision on a whim. Many were in circumstances where they were pressured to have the tubal ligation by their partners and/or family members. Often, they were not the ones who actually wanted the tubal ligation. Of course there will always be those that say that they should have never agreed to have it done. That is easy to say when you are standing on the outside passing judgment. Being in a terrible relationship that can be abusive is reason enough. Add to this relationship others pressuring you not to have anymore. Add in the fact that you are about to have a baby and hormones are flying and being sleep deprived doesn’t help.
Things do change in our lives and luckily for the better. Many women will move on and actually begin a relationship where love is involved. And if her partner does not have children the desire to have one together is something that is very strong. Problem is women feel they have done something terrible. They have anger and frustration because of their pasts. The person they were with in the previous relationship has moved on and they are stuck being the one that is now infertile.
There is hope and it is called tubal ligation reversal surgery. The cost is about $6000.00 at the time of this article. Pregnancy success rates are excellent for most and the more research that couples are doing is lifting a burden off of women’s shoulders. Yes, their past can be mended and the past is not going to stop them from having a bright future. Every day is a day to look forward to having reversal surgery. It is a day to take better care of her body because she will hopefully someday be pregnant and carry another child.
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